Thirty-Fun

This was me nine years ago. I was working at my first job in a local bank. I was mighty proud of my desk, my business attire, and PC! But I was not happy about my body. I was not confident even if I was not overweight. I just didn’t feel good about myself. I had no exercise, and I did not watch what I ate. 

Good thing I realized that the secret behind confidence is hard work! I started exercising by doing Zumba and cardio.  

I enjoyed food but I became more selective. Mindful eating became a healthier process since I made each meal count. I ate to live, rather than the other way around. 

I also supported social enterprises to remind me that the things I own matter as well. I use handmade, artisan-made objects to motivate me to live meaningfully and appreciate the littlest details. 

My quest for social enterprises has led me to a trip to Banaue with Knitting Expedition, where I learned basic knitting and met some awesome people.  

I never stopped enjoying food. I just did so in moderation. 

I also continued supporting charities, like World Vision and PAWS.  

While waiting for the right opportunity for me, I attend conferences, seminars, and workshops to sharpen the saw, so to speak.  

Whenever I need good vibes, I visit Barkin Blends Dog Cafe to cuddle with my favorite chiweenie, Ella.  

So now, I am thirty-one and confident! I am happy with the life I have built for myself. I am excited to continue growing, learning, and being. 

I hope you will continue following me as I improve myself! 

Soup and Soul

I have been recently trying to reflect on the important things in my life. It was interesting to review my skills, and it has enabled me to find ways to improve myself. I signed up for seminars, conferences, and workshops to expose myself to industry experts and leaders. I read books, learned to knit, and prayed like it’s no one’s business. 

I also became more selective of the food I eat because I want to make each meal count.

One of my favorite spots for mindful eating can be found in a lot of malls in the metro. Cafe Mary Grace serves a filling version of seafood chowder which always speaks to my soul. It’s a revival in a bowl. I enjoy it with the Mary Grace Tandem, an insanely delicious combo of grilled ensaymada and rich colonial-style hot chocolate. This meal has never failed me, and you have to give it a try.  

You will find your soul and stay for the chocolate. It is truly a win-win situation each time! 

Mini Donuts

One of the perks of exploring the metro is finding unexpected delights. I was surprised to find Mini Donuts during my recent visit to Sta. Lucia Mall. It has been years since I last had these. They were my usual treats at the Glorietta Playground (at the activity center) during the nineties.  

Buying a dozen in 2018 was thrilling! I got mine in cookies and cream sugar.  

It is still so good! 

The flavor was just right and it was not too sweet. It went well with the coffee I purchased elsewhere. It was a tasty trip down memory lane.  

Stumbling upon my childhood favorites can be a 90’s throwback. I am brought back to the days when I would worry about homework, replacing the batteries on my Walkman (which played cassette tapes!), and reading Sweet Valley High.  

These Mini Donuts are a sweet reminder that the good old days were indeed special. I look forward to buying my next dozen over a cup of 2018 coffee! 

Katsu x Strawberry Taho

Yesterday, I had the chicken katsu bento at Yabu. It was refreshing to knit and eat at a place which I have not visited in quite a while. 

I missed grinding their sesame seeds! 

Of course, I also missed their delicious katsu. Quality and taste are still excellent after all these years.  

For dessert, I had strawberry taho from Soy Yummy. It was a yummy treat after running some errands at the bank.  

I like rediscovering trusted old places like Yabu because they do seem to get better as the years go by. Relatively newer places like Soy Yummy are worth trying out as well because you will never know when you will stumble upon a new favorite. Also, it keeps me young and current to try new things! I will definitely eat more fresh offerings this year (in moderation, of course). After all, I workout so I deserve this!

Breakfast and Lemonade

Yesterday’s brunch was this happy plate of bratwurst, beans, eggs, and mashed potatoes from Pancake House. It was called the My Breakfast Medley. It reminded me of an English breakkie, and it was delicious! 

I also had lemonade with Yakult later during the day, and it is already my favorite variant of the drink.  

I got to walk around the mall after mass and I got to spend some time inside The Craft Central. I enjoyed looking around the store, appreciating their planner wall, taking note of their handmade finds, and purchasing some yarn. 

I found this sign on their floor, and I could not resist taking a photo of it. If I could tell a story of how my day went, I would say that I powered through with brunch, some KFC for dinner, a killer lemonade, mass, and some handmade inspo. That should get me through the week with good vibes!

On Top of Things

We had Mother’s Day lunch at a nice restaurant inside a five star hotel. While we were enjoying the sumptuous food, we also had the chance to view our city from this vantage point. 

It is quite humbling to note that while our urban sprawl is not the most striking of cityscapes, there is still beauty amidst the chaos. There are pockets of greenery and quiet places. I am reminded that there is hope in a city where you see the negative on the foreground. 

Because when you focus on the bigger picture, you will see the potential of your life in a place that is worth stepping back for anyway.  

May you also find your new perspective today, as we begin another week of hustling in this place we call home.  

Comfort Brunch

Yesterday, I was feeling down because I had a difficult conversation with a good friend of mine. It was challenging for me to point out some painful truths to her, but it was worth the effort as we both understood what went wrong. Even if I was the one who had the upper hand, it was still uncomfortable to discuss things with a friend, especially since she is the sensitive type. However, sometimes these conversations are necessary to ensure that the people we love address their concerns. I promised myself a hearty brunch after that discussion. 

I delivered that promise to myself in the form of corned beef and talangka brown rice from my usual, Breakfast Bin. 

For dessert, I walked to Papa Diddi’s for corn and strawberry x double chocolate ice cream scoops.  

It was dreamy to eat it next to this charming Underwood typewriter, which is still functioning well according to the staff! 

I then proceeded to Human Nature to buy some necessities and have some of their in-house brewed coffee, Cafe Lugud! They have free-flowing coffee for all of their customers. I usually bring my own reusable tumbler and have a cup or two after shopping.  

I had a fulfilling day, even if it did not begin on an easy note. I am continuously working on myself, and being a good friend is one of the hats that I strive to wear. Of course, I should love myself before I can even be a friend to anyone. This is why I constantly find ways to improve, so that I can always say that I love being me!

Pixie Confidence

I frequently get asked when I will grow my hair long again, and the answer is probably never. I have enjoyed having pixie hair for years now, as it is a wash and wear style. It has saved me time and energy as my hair requires minimal​ styling, just a bit of wax and I’m good to go. It matches any outfit, whether I’m in workout gear, corporate, or casual clothes. 

I like experimenting with lipsticks, and my pixie goes well with blue, gray, black, red, or pink lips. I enjoy looking fierce with minimal effort. I only go to the salon for a trim once a month. I purchase a jar of wax that lasts me a month and a half, and when I don’t have time to air dry my hair, I use my blower to get the job done. I use a strengthening shampoo from my online shop​ everyday to keep my hair sleek and clean. Lastly, it has also allowed me to stand out in a sea of long-haired maidens. 

If you are also considering a pixie cut, I would suggest that you go for it! It’s only hair, and it will grow longer if you realize that the pixie isn’t your cup of tea. I did not expect this level of commitment when I first had my pixie cut, but I fell in love with the minimalism of the whole process. Also, I can wear striking earrings without looking too extra! If you want a good excuse to wear sparkly bling and still look chic everyday, then go for the pixie cut. Try a bold lip while you’re at it. And always smile, because people will notice it more when you have very short hair. 

Remember, a sleek hairstyle will never make you feel good unless you are already confident on the inside. Work on that first, then get the pixie. You can thank me later.  

Calado Oh Na Na

I have recently shared with you my favorite handmade hoop earrings from homegrown brand Calado. My Mirasol spiral hoops were handmade in Dauis, Bohol by artisans who have inherited their skills in filigree and silversmithing from their ancestors. Their artistry can be traced back to the Spanish colonial times, and Calado is committed to preserving their craft through their handmade jewelry line. 

I am impressed with the quality of my earrings, and I feel pretty whenever I wear them. I think one of the reasons why I feel confident whenever I wear brands like Calado is because I am a strong supporter of the local handmade movement. Becoming a conscious consumer has also let me be naturally drawn to goods which were ethically and fairly made.

I am happy that my earrings, just like many of my belongings, adhere to my handmade lifestyle. It is my hope that more people will discover the joys of conscious consumerism and the beauty of each handmade object. I will continue to share my handmade finds here on my blog, so watch out for my lifestyle posts! Together, we can all discover that hands will always be better than machines in terms of quality and heart. 

Waffle Reward

Whenever I feel like giving up, I always remind myself that I am worth more than my mistakes. I have had my own share of shortcomings, but I have learned from them. I make sure to take note of my areas of improvement so that I will know what specific things I have to work on. I am determined to be the best version of myself by highlighting my strengths to reinforce my limitations. 

Having said that, I do reward myself for small wins! Recently, I have been slaying through my workouts. I have decided to eat my favorite food as a personal backslap. For instance, I had this delicious bacon, egg, lettuce, and tomato (BELT) waffle sandwich from Breakfast Bin. It was delicious and satisfying! 

How do you self-audit your skills? What areas do you have to improve on? And how do you reward yourself for small wins? I hope that you will also find the balance between self-improvement and self-care! 

Another Barkin’ Sunday

I visited Barkin’ Blends Dog Cafe last Sunday to get some good vibes from my favorite furry friends. I visit the cafe whenever I need a few hugs, licks, and cuddles. 

I am never disappointed because the cafe has plenty of dogs to have coffee with. All dogs are clean, soft, and fluffy! 

I was able to spend some time with lots of dogs! 

My favorite dog is this chiweenie named Ella, who has been giving me some TLC for the past three years. I know I’m not supposed to have a favorite, but I do. She is the sweetest.  

What places do you go to whenever you need some good vibes? Do let me know! For now, consider visiting Barkin’ Blends at Sta. Lucia. You will definitely have a better day after meeting their dogs. 

PAWS Feature on Rated K

Last Sunday, I was on Philippine news-magazine show Rated K for five seconds. I was there as part of the feature on The Philippine Animal Society or PAWS. Pet adoption is one of my advocacies, and I was blessed to have supported the PAWS Furst Date event last Valentine’s. All proceeds from their pop-up pet cafe go to the animal shelter, and all of the featured dogs and cats were adoptable!

While I am waiting for my human Mr. Right, I carry on with supporting causes I believe in. I also shop from social enterprises like Human Nature. 

I do intend continue supporting my advocacies even after I get married. It is only ideal to practice what I preach while I am still single and able to do everything that I can on my free time. 

If you are interested to adopt a shelter dog or cat, please contact PAWS to find out how you can meet your next best friend. I guarantee you that PAWS takes care of all their shelter animals, and they will ensure that you will be matched with a suitable furbaby. God bless you!

Mangga at Mali

Yesterday, I went to Malingap Central Food Hall for some roast beef, gelato, and good vibes.  

But first, I posed by this 90’s wall because it made me happy! 

Alfred’s roast beef did not disappoint! At less than P200, this meal was a winner.  

Next, I had mangga & suman gelato from Manila Creamery. 

It was so delicious!  

Sunday food trips make me smile, and I love discovering new restaurants near my place. Do message me if you have any suggestions for me to try!  

Spinach Tartufina Carbonara

Salta! (yes, it is really spelled that way) is one of my go-to Italian restaurants in Quezon City because they serve handmade pasta. I have a soft spot for chewy, handmade goodness, so it is not surprising that I have fallen in love with this their spinach tartufina carbonara. It is a light balance of flavors, complemented by the gooey, runny egg and parmesan cheese.

It is sunshine on a plate. 

I highly recommend this pasta dish because of its genius play on light flavors. It is good for one hungry person, so be sure to eat it on an empty stomach so that you could appreciate its generous serving.

Enjoy! 

The Craft Central Cafe

I have been sharing my craft journey here on my blog, whether it is through knitting, journaling, or brush lettering. I have been fond of working in cafes and restaurants, but sometimes, people tend to stare or blurt out unkind remarks when I stay at a place that is not necessarily for crafters. 

This is why I am ecstatic that The Craft Central finally opened their cafe at Vertis North. It is close to home, packed with craft supplies and handmade goods, and is a safe space for crafters! 

Their menu features light food, which is perfect for crafters to munch on during an hour or two of working. 

I was happy to discover that they also carry yarns and notions! 

I ordered the parmesan chicken picatta open sandwich, and it was delicious!  

I simply feel giddy whenever I am surrounded by handmade love.  

The cafe has a balcony with succulents! 

For dessert, I had a brownie and their delicious americano.  

It was difficult not to feel happy as I was eating beside these jars of calligraphy ink... 

...and locally-made pins! 

The cafe also has decent WiFi connection, so I was able to watch the ADB Meeting via livestream.  

I had a yummy meal, a productive seminar via the interwebs, and a new hangout! I will surely be back!

Sunnies Cafe UP Town

I am a huge fan of Sunnies Cafe. I first tried their food at their Bonifacio High Street branch, and I immediately fell in love with their unique California-cool ambience and hip eats. I also became a regular at their Megamall branch, which became my go-to cafe whenever I am in Ortigas. So you can simply imagine my joy when I found out that they finally opened their UP Town Center branch, which is near my place!

Finally, there is millennial pink goodness close to home! 

I ordered the caramelized spam rice bowl, which never disappoints. I soaked in their hipster interiors and enjoyed my meal.  

I consider eating out by myself as sacred me-time. It is during my solo dates that I get to discover my interests, plans, and upcoming goals. It is fortunate that I have developed the habit of recording my musings during these outings, and these frequently turn into my future blog entries.  

After my meal, I took a selfie at their famously pink washoom. 

I had a lovely time as always at Sunnies Cafe, and I will definitely be back! Here’s to more millennial pink plates and fabulous coffee shop realizations. 

SCbit

Yesterday, I drove to the UP Main Library to catch SCbit, an exhibit to remember the UP Shopping Center. Despite having been burned down, many people have wanted to relive the memories in this nostalgic place. I myself had a lot of happy memories here even if I wasn’t a UP student. I drank strawberry chocolate shakes, ate plates of tapsilog, brought my books for photocopying, and even had a pair of fashionable specs made.

The facade of the library was lovely! 

I think it is commendable that students from the UP Library Science department have taken the time to put this exhibit together. They have diligently looked for photos, interviewed stakeholders, and researched at the University Archives.  

My photos were included in the exhibit! I am thankful that Nicole, one of the organizers, has reached out to me to ask for permission. I gladly said yes!

I miss the Shopping Center (SC), primarily for the food, cheap photocopy shops, and the Sarabia Optical Shop, which was where I got these fashionable specs!

The exhibit was a walk through memory lane. It was touching to see the efforts of the students in putting this exhibit together. I hope that the SC will be rebuilt so that more people will be able to have a one-stop shop in the middle of UP again. 

St. Joseph’s Blessings

Yesterday, I celebrated Labor Day and St. Joseph’s feast day by visiting the Pink Sisters Convent in Quezon City. It is incidentally dedicated to St. Joseph. 

I prayed for blessings, opportunities, and love! 

I then proceeded to Breakfast Bin for a hearty bowl of toasted naked longganisa, egg, and talangka brown rice. I also read You are a Badass  by Jen Sincero, which is very timely in my life. My BFF kindly lent me his copy, and it is helping me process things. 

I also took advantage of the traffic-free roads and drove to St. Clare Monastery. I echoed my prayers and gave thanks for everything good in my life.  

This May, I want to grow as a person and worker. I am thankful and excited for all the opportunities I have yet to receive. Here’s to a productive month ahead! 

Kate, Pasta, and Gelato

I recently got to have lunch with my Lucas relatives. The highlight of my day was that I got to spend time with my goddaughter, Kate!

At two years old, she’s already a seasoned selfie pro. 

She diligently wears the watch I gave to her last Christmas. She also accepts edible gifts, like cookies. 

I ate this delicious bowl of aglio olio pasta as Kate watched cartoons on her iPad. Amici is always ideal for family gatherings. 

We took more selfies between our mains and desserts. 

I got my usual mint chocolate gelato and coffee for dessert. 

Kate seemed fascinated with my handcrafted bangles! She tried removing them, but they’re practically attached to my wrist. Heck, I cannot even remove or tighten them without the assistance of a strong guy. 

I had fun with Kate, and it will be her third birthday soon. Time flies indeed, and I look forward to taking more selfies with her as the years go by. 

Sunday Sunshine

Yesterday, I started my day with a brisk walk at UP.  I took this selfie at home to motivate me before my workout, and believe it or not, this tactic works whenever I feel too sleepy to move in the morning. 

I enjoyed my walk as I listened to early 2000’s music. 

I satisfied my craving for beef tapa by eating at Breakfast Bin. I customized my tapa rice bowl with brown talangka rice!

It was delicious and filling! 

It was my first time to try their tapa and I am now a fan! I will definitely continue working out and eating breakfast so that my days will continue to be sunny, bright, and full of opportunities.