I felt down the other day. I was tired from a Zoom call, so I allowed myself to rest. I took a nap, wrote in my journal, and listened to music.
I also listened to this episode of The Linya-Linya Show wherein Ali and his guest Doc Gia spoke about the importance of asking each other “how are you?” and asking for help. This particular episode comforted me because two years ago, I was the one in need.
I was struggling because my father was terminally-ill. I was asking for help, but a lot of people in my circle chose to ignore my pleas. It was heartbreaking to receive negative criticism from my friends. There were those who called me “pathetic”, and then there were some who called me “weak”, “a beggar”, and “foolish”. To make it clear though, I never asked anyone for money. I just asked my contacts to buy from my Human Nature Online Store (please support!), and to help me find employment.
I am grateful to those who supported my small business during that difficult time, and even until now. And while I am still looking for a corporate job, I am already aware of my worth and my capabilities.
Right now, I acknowledge that there is no shame at all in asking for help. There is also strength in extending help whenever we can.
May we always remember to help ourselves first, then become a shining light to others!