Fast Forward

I recently finished reading Fast Forward by Jonathan Yabut, and I enjoyed it. It lived up to its claim to be “the ultimate career guide for millennials on the move.” As a millennial just like the author, I was able to relate to the experiences he has shared on this book. His lessons on his storied career was truly worth writing about, as he has worked for ten years in as a marketing executive in some of the most established companies across various industries.

My favorite part of this book was his tips on how to achieve work-life balance. These were very simple tips. Examples of which were recognizing that work-life balance is a choice, and that we should stop eating lunch on our desks. They may be deceptively straightforward, but they actually teach us that finding fulfilment in the office while still having a life is possible if only we know how to work smarter.

The gospel of working smarter includes knowing how to communicate to your boss, succeeding in job interviews, and learning how to love your job. Jonathan shares his practical insights so that his fellow millennials will be able to have rewarding careers while enriching their lives. I appreciate that his prose is direct and easy to understand. It is accessible to all millennial readers and even those who are no longer within that age group, but still willing to understand people my age better.

I highly recommend this book! Buy it on Shopee via this link and learn how you can fast forward your way to an amazing career!

From Grit to Great

I recently finished reading From Grit to Great: The Journey to Becoming Asia’s Apprentice by Jonathan Yabut. I bought myself a copy of this autobiography because I have become a regular attendee of his webinars of late. By engaging with his Facebook community, I was able to polish my communication skills and interact with Jonathan himself through the Q&A rounds.

From Grit to Great has provided me with the necessary background on the person who runs one of the most popular online learning academies today. I never knew that he was a lifelong scholar and a debater like myself until I read this book. His strategies for winning The Apprentice Asia Season One can be applied not just in the office, but also during our daily interactions with our peers.

I especially enjoyed learning how he developed and strengthened his grit. He treated grit like a skill that could be harnessed through life experiences and professional growth. I am eager to apply his best practices to my own career, especially now that I am about to launch my career as a published author. Realistically speaking though, my career does not encompass the whole Asian region like Jonathan has achieved, but his life story has inspired me to dream big and never stop learning. I am confident that everyone can learn a thing or two from this autobiography.

It was one of the most readable and relatable autobiographies I have ever read. Best of all, the author donates a portion of his royalties to educational causes. I hope that these reasons will convince you to purchase your own copy here!

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The Philippines is Not a Small Country

Every once in a while, a piece of art will stun and prod you to think about your country and its social conditions. In my case, it was the book The Philippines is Not a Small Country by Gideon Lasco.

The Palanca-award winning essayist, MD, and anthropologist has written an engaging collection of articles mostly derived from his Philippine Daily Inquirer column. His topics range from health, travel, music, video games, food, and more. What kept me reading was his delightful and vivid writing. There were some points raised in his book wherein I would agree to disagree with the author, but I still remained glued to the book because I simply found myself beaming with pride. The author has successfully highlighted key points in our history, geography, biodiversity, and culture to support his titular claim that the Philippines is indeed not a small country.

My favorite part of the book was when the author reflected on death and how we as a people approach mortality. This fragile topic is still largely taboo in our society, yet it still underscores our family ties. We practice pakikisama until our last breath. In a country which we ourselves mistakenly perceive as small, death is a huge event that is quietly observed yet audaciously taken for granted.

I recommend this book not only for its ability to restore national pride, but also because it is an enjoyable read which can transport the reader across the archipelago whilst on lockdown. With more free time at our disposal, we could use some patriotism and critical thinking to sustain us during the pandemic and beyond.

Buy The Philippines is Not a Small Country here today! I hope you will appreciate it for its capacity to inspire every Filipino to serve our country.

Pandemic Partnership

Not everyone gets another chance to fall in love. In this age of online dating, ghosting, and very public breakups, I am fortunate to find a supportive partner. He was introduced to me by a college friend, and we hit it off immediately. Our initial conversations were far from smooth, but we had enough traits in common in order to start a relationship. I enjoyed our chats because they were rooted in our common childhood experiences, given that he was an Ateneo lifer and I went to Miriam College Grade School.

We both wanted to be in a relationship at the right time. We were both single, willing, and drawn to our common interests and values. I was grateful for our shared experiences from the beginning, because we always found a way to agree to disagree. He was personable and fun to be with during our first date, and the rest is history.

I knew that his love was real when he witnessed how I overcame conflicts on my end. He helped me solve problems and he volunteered to edit and proofread my book. Given that it was my first book project, he was generous with his time and supportive as a partner. When my birthday fell in the middle of the recent lockdown, he risked the possibility of being stopped at a checkpoint to personally give me gifts and a cake. Evidently, his effort shows genuine care, concern, and affection.

Now that we are in the middle of the pandemic, finding love is determined by three factors: effort, concern, and action. Make sure that your partner is willing to exert effort in spending time with you. See how your partner shows concern towards you. After observing your partner, examine how he takes action on his feelings.

I am lucky that my partner loves and supports me. It is my wish that everyone finds someone like him, and that relationships with love and shared experiences will last beyond the pandemic. If you also met your partner during the pandemic, let me know you are coping and how you see your relationship is going.

Stay safe, everyone!

The Bachelor

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I recently finished reading The Bachelor by J.D. Ruiz. The novel is set in the US, and while it was loosely based on the reality show of the same name, there were many differences depicted on the novel. I liked the novel better than the show, to be honest, because the author gave the girls more air time and the protagonist, Zach, was not a heartless, opportunistic sadboi.

The dialogue was witty as its female protagonist, Julianne. She was a novelist who was forced to join the reality show by the producers in order to snag a coveted writing job. It was an interesting premise which was spiced up by the fact that she was not dressed skimpily unlike the other girls. She dove right in there with her comfortable clothing, unkempt hair, and thick glasses. Just when she thought that she was in the clear when it came to attracting Zach, she actually caught his attention from the very start due to her nonchalant attitude. Hilarity ensued when Zach does everything to win her heart, and Julianne continues to become the bestselling author that she is.

I learned from this novel that love is not a formulaic plot that is written for TV. It is an unscripted story between two people who consciously win their own battles in order to pursue the person that they choose to be with each day. It is a touching reminder as our own lives are closely resembling reality shows with our increasingly ubiquitous presence on social media. Real love takes work, effort, and dedication. It is up to us to discern whether the love of our life makes each gesture worth it.

If you enjoy romance, reality TV, and honest to goodness banter, check out The Bachelor on Wattpad. You will not be disappointed.

Toto and the Boys: Jackie

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I just finished reading Toto and the Boys: Jackie on Wattpad. It is an English novel by Filipina author J.D. Ruiz. I enjoyed reading it as it was set in Bacolod, which is a different environment from urban Manila, where I am based and quarantined due to the Delta variant. The setting gave me the impression of a lush, green scenery where people were friendlier and more laidback.

The protagonist, Jackie, was a marketing professional who was avoiding a creepy stalker while developing a relationship with her elusive yet artistically-inclined boss. The novel is told mostly from the POV of Toto, the Beetle that Jackie and her girl friends drive. It was refreshing and humorous to read a novel from the perspective of a car. It gave the novel a fun and light twist.

Aside from the summery plot, I learned these lessons while reading Toto and the Boys:

  1. Life is not predictable. Some things are better left unplanned. Enjoy the sponteneity!

  2. Being creative has its perks. Think out of the box!

  3. Forgiving and accepting yourself is the greatest gift you can give to yourself.

  4. Find a partner who will love and accept you for who you really are.

I highly recommend this novel to people who enjoy rustic settings and coming of age plots. Do check out Toto and the Boys on Wattpad now and enjoy your road trip with Jackie!

The Day She Said Goodnight

I recently finished reading The Day She Said Goodnight by Owwsic. I read this after watching this video by AnakNiRizal on her Tales of Demi YouTube channel. I was instantly hooked by the bad boy meets sick girl plot, and it was supported by solid Taglish storytelling.

The novel was memorable not just because of its appealing storyline, but because I was able to empathize with Rome, the male protagonist whose first person POV was moving and direct to the point. The storytelling may have a predictable plot, but Owwsic managed to craft one that was far from cheesy and pitiful through Rome’s POV. I liked it, and it definitely hit me hard.

I learned the following lessons from The Day She Said Goodnight:

  1. Life is too short, so make each moment count

  2. Love makes life more meaningful

  3. Success is best achieved through hard work and healthy collaboration

I highly recommend this book if you like romance novels that will tug your heartstrings while reminding you of the meaning of life.

You may access The Day She Said Goodnight on Wattpad.

So, This Is Youth

I recently finished reading So, This is Youth on Wattpad. It was written by AnakNiRizal, who is my favorite writing teacher on YouTube. I read this novel before I turned 35, and I must say that it was filled with life lessons on growing up, learning for its own sake, and moving on.

Here are some of the lessons I have learned from reading So, This is Youth:

  1. Getting older does not mean getting wiser

  2. The whole point of school is to teach you how to continue learning how to learn

  3. Money does not buy happiness and fulfillment, but it can be the means to pay for an education, to support worthy causes, and to invest in oneself

  4. Life begins when we realize what we are made of

I recommend this novel if you are a fan of inspirational yet numerous writing. You will definitely enjoy this light yet insightful read.

You may access this complete novel on Wattpad.

Money & Me

I recently finished reading Money & Me by Sha Nacino. I read this book because I wanted to improve my spending habits while I am staying at home for now due to the lockdown. I am glad that I read this because I learned some key takeaways which I could apply to my life:

  1. Money is simply a tool to buy our basic needs. In order to make it grow, we should use it to invest in ourselves. One of the ways that we can improve ourselves through self-investment is through seminars. I personally believe in this because seminars have enabled me to learn, network, and develop my skills.

  2. We can all recover from credit card debt. I have never experienced this, but I believe that this chapter is important because so many people my age are in credit card debt.

  3. Happiness can be achieved if we learn that money is not the only way to achieve it. Living within our means is one of the ways that we can achieve happiness and peace of mind.

I recommend this book to everyone who would like to improve their financial literacy. Get this book here and learn more on how money can help you invest in yourself!

The Time Capsule

I just finished reading The Time Capsule by J.D. Ruiz a.k.a. GreenWriter on Wattpad. I purchased the physical copy of the book prior to the current lockdown, because I wanted to support local authors and rekindle my love for reading. Little did I know that this book would teach me valuable life lessons.

The novel follows Steph, an entrepreneur who goes to Bacolod for her late grandmother’s wake and burial. She then discovers her grandmother’s diary, and this leads her to an adventure that would trace important scenes in her late grandmother’s adventurous life. She also forms a bond with Erik, the local who would prove to be an entertaining guide and the key to Steph’s self-discovery and transformation.

The novel made me want to explore Bacolod myself! This book has the power to transport the reader to the beautiful province. I felt like a third wheel in Steph and Erik’s road trip, and this felt magical. We need more books like this during the pandemic because it gives us a semblance of travel and adventure while we are on quarantine.

I also learned a some key lessons from this book:

  1. “Why would I go back to my old life when I knew I had found more to live for? Love does not always have to be the reason we should fall…” (Erik, p.186)

  2. Travel is an invaluable tool for learning and self-discovery.

  3. Grief is a period to recover and know ourselves better.

  4. Our late loved ones can teach us a thing or two about life, love, and work. Reading their diary or writings can enable us to continue their legacy by applying their “teachings” to our own lives.

  5. We should not look down on people in the province, especially those who do menial work. Farmers, manual laborers, and those who work in the market have innate wisdom and trade knowledge. We should treat them with utmost respect as they can teach us lessons about their craft and lives.

I highly recommend this book if you are itching to travel during the pandemic. Not only will you enjoy a love story, but you will also learn lessons that you can apply to your pursuits in love, life, and work. Get this book here and experience a road trip that you will never forget!