The Bachelor

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I recently finished reading The Bachelor by J.D. Ruiz. The novel is set in the US, and while it was loosely based on the reality show of the same name, there were many differences depicted on the novel. I liked the novel better than the show, to be honest, because the author gave the girls more air time and the protagonist, Zach, was not a heartless, opportunistic sadboi.

The dialogue was witty as its female protagonist, Julianne. She was a novelist who was forced to join the reality show by the producers in order to snag a coveted writing job. It was an interesting premise which was spiced up by the fact that she was not dressed skimpily unlike the other girls. She dove right in there with her comfortable clothing, unkempt hair, and thick glasses. Just when she thought that she was in the clear when it came to attracting Zach, she actually caught his attention from the very start due to her nonchalant attitude. Hilarity ensued when Zach does everything to win her heart, and Julianne continues to become the bestselling author that she is.

I learned from this novel that love is not a formulaic plot that is written for TV. It is an unscripted story between two people who consciously win their own battles in order to pursue the person that they choose to be with each day. It is a touching reminder as our own lives are closely resembling reality shows with our increasingly ubiquitous presence on social media. Real love takes work, effort, and dedication. It is up to us to discern whether the love of our life makes each gesture worth it.

If you enjoy romance, reality TV, and honest to goodness banter, check out The Bachelor on Wattpad. You will not be disappointed.

The Quiet Ones

I just finished reading The Quiet Ones by Glenn Diaz. It won the Palanca Grand Prize back in 2017, and I purchased it because I wanted a well-written Filipino novel that I could sink my teeth into while on lockdown. I was not disappointed

The plot revolved around Alvin, a twenty-something call center agent who worked for an American telco in the heart of Makati. Set mostly in 2008, it was filled with pop culture references from that era. I graduated from university in 2008, so the setting was relevant for me. Coincidentally, the skyscraper where Alvin and his call center officemates worked was also where my first job was located. It felt like a blast from the past, albeit with different characters who could have been my friends, classmates, and contemporaries.

I enjoyed this book because the plot became interesting when Alvin and his friends on the floor wired money from their rich telco client to a dummy account which funded their own respective accounts. It was a clandestine operation which was so illegal yet interesting given how cunning and discreet they were. While I will never do this for the life of me, I still found it engaging because of the colorful backstories of each character which later motivated them to take part in the crime. The result was a satirical, hilarious, and oftentimes relatable drama which is a result of globalization, outsourcing, and robotic call center culture.

I worked in a BPO myself, so this book resonated with me. I empathize with the characters, and I feel sad that several of our countrymen have to endure hours of irate phone calls just to escape poverty. However, I also feel renewed respect for these Filipinos who choose to work as outsourced employees in order to provide for their families. It would be better though if clandestine money wiring would only be within the confines of this novel.

I believe that this novel is required reading for BPO workers and aspirants alike. It is a slice of life take on the BPO industry and the motivations of Filipinos in entering this lucrative industry. It could either be a cautionary tale, or a fairy tale. The choice is yours.

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Toto and the Boys: Jackie

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I just finished reading Toto and the Boys: Jackie on Wattpad. It is an English novel by Filipina author J.D. Ruiz. I enjoyed reading it as it was set in Bacolod, which is a different environment from urban Manila, where I am based and quarantined due to the Delta variant. The setting gave me the impression of a lush, green scenery where people were friendlier and more laidback.

The protagonist, Jackie, was a marketing professional who was avoiding a creepy stalker while developing a relationship with her elusive yet artistically-inclined boss. The novel is told mostly from the POV of Toto, the Beetle that Jackie and her girl friends drive. It was refreshing and humorous to read a novel from the perspective of a car. It gave the novel a fun and light twist.

Aside from the summery plot, I learned these lessons while reading Toto and the Boys:

  1. Life is not predictable. Some things are better left unplanned. Enjoy the sponteneity!

  2. Being creative has its perks. Think out of the box!

  3. Forgiving and accepting yourself is the greatest gift you can give to yourself.

  4. Find a partner who will love and accept you for who you really are.

I highly recommend this novel to people who enjoy rustic settings and coming of age plots. Do check out Toto and the Boys on Wattpad now and enjoy your road trip with Jackie!

The Day She Said Goodnight

I recently finished reading The Day She Said Goodnight by Owwsic. I read this after watching this video by AnakNiRizal on her Tales of Demi YouTube channel. I was instantly hooked by the bad boy meets sick girl plot, and it was supported by solid Taglish storytelling.

The novel was memorable not just because of its appealing storyline, but because I was able to empathize with Rome, the male protagonist whose first person POV was moving and direct to the point. The storytelling may have a predictable plot, but Owwsic managed to craft one that was far from cheesy and pitiful through Rome’s POV. I liked it, and it definitely hit me hard.

I learned the following lessons from The Day She Said Goodnight:

  1. Life is too short, so make each moment count

  2. Love makes life more meaningful

  3. Success is best achieved through hard work and healthy collaboration

I highly recommend this book if you like romance novels that will tug your heartstrings while reminding you of the meaning of life.

You may access The Day She Said Goodnight on Wattpad.

So, This Is Youth

I recently finished reading So, This is Youth on Wattpad. It was written by AnakNiRizal, who is my favorite writing teacher on YouTube. I read this novel before I turned 35, and I must say that it was filled with life lessons on growing up, learning for its own sake, and moving on.

Here are some of the lessons I have learned from reading So, This is Youth:

  1. Getting older does not mean getting wiser

  2. The whole point of school is to teach you how to continue learning how to learn

  3. Money does not buy happiness and fulfillment, but it can be the means to pay for an education, to support worthy causes, and to invest in oneself

  4. Life begins when we realize what we are made of

I recommend this novel if you are a fan of inspirational yet numerous writing. You will definitely enjoy this light yet insightful read.

You may access this complete novel on Wattpad.

Money & Me

I recently finished reading Money & Me by Sha Nacino. I read this book because I wanted to improve my spending habits while I am staying at home for now due to the lockdown. I am glad that I read this because I learned some key takeaways which I could apply to my life:

  1. Money is simply a tool to buy our basic needs. In order to make it grow, we should use it to invest in ourselves. One of the ways that we can improve ourselves through self-investment is through seminars. I personally believe in this because seminars have enabled me to learn, network, and develop my skills.

  2. We can all recover from credit card debt. I have never experienced this, but I believe that this chapter is important because so many people my age are in credit card debt.

  3. Happiness can be achieved if we learn that money is not the only way to achieve it. Living within our means is one of the ways that we can achieve happiness and peace of mind.

I recommend this book to everyone who would like to improve their financial literacy. Get this book here and learn more on how money can help you invest in yourself!

The Time Capsule

I just finished reading The Time Capsule by J.D. Ruiz a.k.a. GreenWriter on Wattpad. I purchased the physical copy of the book prior to the current lockdown, because I wanted to support local authors and rekindle my love for reading. Little did I know that this book would teach me valuable life lessons.

The novel follows Steph, an entrepreneur who goes to Bacolod for her late grandmother’s wake and burial. She then discovers her grandmother’s diary, and this leads her to an adventure that would trace important scenes in her late grandmother’s adventurous life. She also forms a bond with Erik, the local who would prove to be an entertaining guide and the key to Steph’s self-discovery and transformation.

The novel made me want to explore Bacolod myself! This book has the power to transport the reader to the beautiful province. I felt like a third wheel in Steph and Erik’s road trip, and this felt magical. We need more books like this during the pandemic because it gives us a semblance of travel and adventure while we are on quarantine.

I also learned a some key lessons from this book:

  1. “Why would I go back to my old life when I knew I had found more to live for? Love does not always have to be the reason we should fall…” (Erik, p.186)

  2. Travel is an invaluable tool for learning and self-discovery.

  3. Grief is a period to recover and know ourselves better.

  4. Our late loved ones can teach us a thing or two about life, love, and work. Reading their diary or writings can enable us to continue their legacy by applying their “teachings” to our own lives.

  5. We should not look down on people in the province, especially those who do menial work. Farmers, manual laborers, and those who work in the market have innate wisdom and trade knowledge. We should treat them with utmost respect as they can teach us lessons about their craft and lives.

I highly recommend this book if you are itching to travel during the pandemic. Not only will you enjoy a love story, but you will also learn lessons that you can apply to your pursuits in love, life, and work. Get this book here and experience a road trip that you will never forget!

Birthday 2021

I turned thirty-five last August 13. I was fortunate to have a lovely celebration at home. It was memorable, even if the lockdown prevented me from going out. I am healthy, happy, and fortunate to have another year in this world, and those matter more than partying until the break of dawn.

We started with my favorite Taiwanese biang biang beef noodle soup from Pilya’s Kitchen at The Grid Food Market.

Then, I ordered milk tea from Cha Cha Go Visayas Avenue.

I was later surprised with cappuccino cake and gifts from my partner Lorenz. He visited me despite living near checkpoints. Massive props to him! I think he is a keeper.

We had Angel’ s Pizza in creamy spinach dip.

I was also surprised with chocolate cake from Fifth Gear. I am truly grateful and honored to be one of their blogger partners.

Lorenz gave me gifts that are meaningful and special. I will treasure these, especially the titanium promise ring. More than its aesthetic quality, I appreciate it for the significance that it holds.

I am blessed to have a supportive family, a blog that allows me to work with the best people, and a loving partner who shows up everyday. I am a very lucky girl.

Mofii Wired Mechanical Keyboard

I am very happy with my Mofii wired mechanical keyboard. It is a true mechanical keyboard, with a quality USB cable that connects to a laptop or PC. I am very impressed with its quality, as its price points are affordable and reasonable. I was able to enjoy its functionality when I wrote a couple of write-ups earlier, and I must say that I am in love! It is a joy to use.

In order to change its light mode, just press Fn + PrtSc.

This keyboard is one of my best Shopee purchases to date. Buy it here and see it for yourself!